We all grow up with a certain view of life due to our environment and family.
It is okay to change your mind if you feel it does not go along with your life anymore. Not everything we were taught and how we were raised works for the world today.
There is a saying “Our parents raised us for a world that does not exist anymore”. In part this is true. When are parents were growing up they did not have to deal with certain issues going on in the world today. Everything was affordable back then compared to today. Bullying, technology, drugs, etc were not to the extent they are today. There list can go on and on.
It is okay to change your views to adapt to today’s society in order to be happy, healthy and successful.
It is okay to take longer to achieve certain goals and dreams do everything at your own pace. It is also okay that everything is also done “out of order”. Everyone has their own lane and path in life.
Take your time, and do not let the outside voices and environment make you feel like you are doing everything wrong. Do not stress it, everything happens in due time not when you or anyone else want it to happen. It happens when it is meant to, and at the perfect time.